Day in and day out, on TV, movies, radio, and podcasts, sex is on the minds of the masses. We all think about it at one point or another, whether we’re a virgin or a seasoned pro. From the moment puberty hits, and even the curiosity of childhood, we experiment and play with thoughts of sex and with ourselves. It is the driving force for advertisement, for media, and for our everyday lives. And it doesn’t matter what age you are, with the advent of Viagra, it even helps those who can’t help themselves (“old people”). Its an amazing act, its an amazing drive, and its an amazing motivation for some of the dumbest things we do in life.
The biggest culprit of selling sex is the internet, and there are thousands, probably millions, of websites dedicated to some iteration of sex, and it puts a choke hold on our hormones. Women aren’t as susceptible by all this, as they are more mistresses of their domain, but men…gentlemen. We’ll spend money for it, we’ll buy expensive gifts for it, we’ll lie, cheat, and steal for it. And honestly, it doesn’t make sense. For a guy, its a short, huge hurrah…then it’s done. For a gal, it can last a long time, there can be multiple, and…well, I can only assume its more satisfying. You don’t fall asleep afterwards ladies, you get more energetic…so why don’t you crave it as much?
Men love it and crave it, and as I’ve observed and experienced for myself, and have done myself, we will do a lot for it. But even I, a guy, don’t get why its so powerful. Yes, we are engineered to want it, and to do it with as many women as possible. Its in our genetics (to a degree) to go ahead and plant our seed on as much fertile soil as we can. Its not an excuse, I mean, what else explains the stupidity that comes over us that keeps us up late at night, thet keeps us spending our hard earned cash, and the fuels a multibillion dollar porn industry? We don’t always think with our heads.
Has anyone out there been ab le to control it? To turn away from the “need” to go online and spend hours at porn sites, sit on chatroulette with your junk hanging out. Handsome to not…so handsome, we as men do it and women exploit it. Is that just the kind of world we live in? Women, do you get a kick out of manipulating us guys with sex? Is it for the money, the attention, or gifts, or is there something else to it? Do you even know you have that power over us?
