I hate to say it, or maybe I love to say it, but porn is a part of every day life. You actually have to go out of your way to not see something pornographic or sexy or whatnot, especially on the internet. So needless to say that people are capitalizing on this and well, something bothers me about it. We as a society love hot girl’s, don’t we? We want to be with them, we want to admire them, we want to almost worship them in some way. I know I’ve found myself ogling over the ladies, and more or less giving in to their every whim. It’s like women have a way of hypnotizing with their eyes, or their boobs, I forget which.
Image: photostock / FreeDigitalPhotos.netMen can get obsessed and you see it in how famous female celebrities have stalkers and how women at bars will be able to get drunk for free and have to give nothing back to the men who spoil them. We as men will do practically anything even for the idea of the possibility of sex. I admit, I’ve been in that boat too, and I don’t know if it’s incredibly sad or just how the world works. Sure you’ll see women doing the same thing, but I think guy’s like that kind of attention because it makes us feel awesome and macho and may lead to sex. And men for the most part, unless your Tim Gunn, will stop sex from happening. (Yes, I realize the guy’s gay, which gives him less of an excuse to deny sex, I mean, we guys of all orientations are horny, horny people.)
This can bring up a lot of different scenarios, because in all honesty, women deserve to be treated equally and want to be paid like men, and so many other things. They should have those things, but the thing is, women will NEVER be treated the same way as men. As long as there are gentlemen out there willing to spend exorbitant amounts of money and practially spend their time on their hands and knees to get a bit of attention from women, it will never be equal. I don’t see women getting all crazy over a hot guy. Women aren’t throwing dollar bills at the good looking man to please him. It just doesn’t work that way, which is why the ladies will always have the advantage in that respect. Our eyes lock on to the many beautiful women out there and they have our attentions and well, that’s where it weirds me out.
Beautiful women are taking advantage of their looks, and will often join websites that exploit this idea. Not that I go to these sites, but I heard that there are sites out there where men can go in, watch these beautiful women do anything, from mundane tasks, to full on nudity, to even sexual acts with inanimate objects. Again, not that I would know anything about these sites. These women, are genuinely pretty, with supposed “regular” lives, and are technically just average, every day, girl next door type of ladies. Is the draw to money that powerful? Is the ability to get men to pay real money just to be a voyeur so strong that they put aside relationships with a single man for the possibility of riches from multiple men? Are these seemly “normal” women really out of the ordinary? Though they technically put forward the looks and personality to get their sexual, emotional, and relationship needs met, are they simply more drawn to money then anything else? Even if some of these women have relationships, wouldn’t that just put a huge strain on it?
I guess you have to make a living some how, and these women on these sites seem to having a good time and building a rapport with the men who show up to these sites and making “relationships” with them, so how bad can it be? I’m not saying it’s bad I guess, I just don’t seem to understand. These are women who obviously have men who want to be with them, and again, that’s being taken advantage of. I had a girlfriend once, who I actually met online in an unusual way. We met a few times, we built a relationship, and it was all good times. But she, unbeknownst to me, was using the internet for her own sexual needs. I don’t know if she ever stopped, but it was almost like a drug that she have this sexual connection with these guys, married, single and or otherwise. Which I don’t really know what the otherwise would be. She was a fine woman, great personality, and if it wasn’t just for the fact that she didn’t really hide the fact that she was doing all this stuff, I would never have known. Maybe these women and these sites are just sexual beings, lonely, or just need that attention. All I know is, after finding that out about my ex-girlfriend was a punch to the face, but it was worth it, because though she was getting all this attention from these men, as far as I know I was getting all the sex. And yes, I realize I could be wrong, but a guy can dream can’t he?
This is what I get from all the sexy time that goes on online on these websites and chat places and whatnot. Women love the power they have over men, and like to take advantage of it. Sure relationships of varying degrees will happen in these sites, but nothing real. It’s all online, and seeing these men (well, from what I hear), it makes me sad for my gender. We guys have this disillusion that we can get in these women’s pants or get their love if we compliment them at the right time or spend a hundred bucks because they showed us their panties. It’s a fascinating look at how guys will bend over backwards for the possibility of anything, even if it’s a possibility of nothing more than a thank you.
So if you’re a woman who does this, I want to hear from you, and if you’re a guy who goes to these sites, I want to hear from you also. Gentlemen, I want to know if you really think you’re going to get with the girl if you spoil her with money and compliments. And ladies, I want to know what you get from being an exhibitionist, other than you’re an exhibitionist? Do you realize you’re playing with these men’s hearts and penises? Give me your sides of the story.
