Welcome to the Online Friend Simulator. Because everyone could use a friend, even online. I’m Francis aka The Other Guy.
This time around I’m responding to comments on Sincere Sarcasm. From looking fit, to confidence, to what’s considered attractive, I promise not to turn this podcast into another Geek Love Radio. It just happens to work out that way at the moment. So take a listen, keep sharing with your friends and neighbors, and feel free to give me your harshest criticism. Don’t worry. I can take it.
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Two quotes from my collection (on a user subpage on en.wiki ) which you might relate to at this point in your life:
“It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.”
“Heavy is the toll, for those who seek happiness.”
Ponder how these both fit in your life at the moment.
As for confidence, perhaps it is far more important that physical attractiveness? In that if one is confident and forward (yet not arrogant or narcissistic), it may make someone appear better fit in their skin, and create the confidence in the potential partner that the individual will be able to support and provide for the other in that potential future relationship.
As for the nature of the show, continue doing what you are doing. If you want to weave a theme or lesson into it, do so by continuing to share your life’s experiences. For you know your life the best, and the lessons you’ve learned from those experiences.
Next meetup is in Tijuana:
https://www.meetup.com/SoCalBronies/events/249956174/
Previous meetup was a success:
https://youtu.be/OBHLjv-gy7o
I’m glad you didn’t take my comments offensively as they weren’t meant to be taken. Scientifically physical activity just makes people feel better, and usually when done in groups, people form packs in which form an exponential mood boost. It’s a win win. You’ll get there one day. Just take one step at a time. Keep the format you’re doing, people can relate by what you’re going through.
Francis,
From what I’m hearing of listening to this episode(episode 19) is your talking about 2 things:
1. How you perceive you
&
2. How others perceive you.
Now with the 2nd point 1st. How others perceive you will and always be a false perception of yourself until you or others will show them.
Like every one says: “Don’t assume anything…because it will always make an ASS out of U(You) & Me” Nothing is more true than how people think that they see you…especially if they are basing what they see from a visual perspective and nothing other than that.
As far as the 1st point, How you see yourself…..
You will always have 3 perceptions of how you see yourself. 1. How YOU think you look & 2. How YOU think others think you look. & 3. How do YOU want others to see how you look.
If you think too highly of yourself, then your looked at as egotistical and if you don’t look too highly of yourself then you feel(and are often looked at) as someone with a low self esteem and social and or physical issues.
What’s most important is, and I’ve said this MANY times, is knowing who you are….and why you are, & the rest will fall into place. Knowing this will always lead into things of: “learning to improve yourself for the betterment of you” “knowing who can make you a better person” & “finding your own sense of humility and sincerity”
I really hope what I have said helps & you have some good points of view on my opinion.