Usually life “sucks”. We have commutes, bills to pay, we have levels of crap we have to deal with on a daily basis. In the world, people in power need to prove who they are, and men of evil topple and fall and die. If you think about it, that’s a whole lot going on. And then there’s our own personal lives, where even smaller forces push and pull at our very being, and sometimes…

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No matter who you are, where you’re from, what you did, as long as you…are breathing, there’s a part of you that seeks friendship. (See what I did there? Yeah, I’m not very proud of it either.) I believe we all have some part of us that seeks companionship, whether its romantic or platonic, we desire to have other people around. Yeah, you have family, but they’re not always around and they may not be…

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It’s take me ages to write this, and for what I want to convince you is a good reason. I am intensely lazy. Also, what I’m going to talk about depends on factors known only to those involved. I am talking about sending messages to totally hot people on the Internet. When you send your messages out, it’s content will always depend on your interests, and obviously those of the recipient. I’d like to start…

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I’ve never experienced this personally, but I think it’s possible…well, not necessarily for me. It’s a problem that people who are looking for a relationship, or are single hope they find themselves in. Or maybe not, because it’s a pretty weird problem. You find yourself attracted and interested in more than one person, and for some strange, out of this world reason, those people are attracted and interested in you back. Now maybe you’re thinking,…

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So here I am, going about my day being sick and being tired, and I stumble across this little ditty about Facebook written on Gizmodo. Now, I know people have weird opinions about that site, and I can appreciate weird. But this article, blog post, whatever it is, could not be ignored. And I’ll just give you the jist of it. It’s saying, you’re either on Facebook or you’re a loser. Now, I respect anyone’s…

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No literally, I am sick. I’m practically puking on the keyboard, which…if that’s your thing, then uhh…cool. Otherwise, expect posts starting tomorrow with an Episode of Geek Love Radio and/or an Episode of A Critical Moment of Awesome. Anyway, I’m going to bed before I die. Peace out everyone.

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What I like most about doing a podcast and a blog is being able to share my ideas with you and my thoughts on things. But what I REALLY like most is being able to hear from you and what you like or think. This is your chance to share your opinions and what you want to hear on Geek Love Radio, like topics, articles, questions, stories, whatever. You’re the reason the podcast exists, and…

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Written by: Dave the Drummer Like a lot of people, I don’t interact well in person. I’m a shy little dude. I mightn’t seem it on Geek Love Radio, but I have the luxury of hiding behind a screen. I’ve tried a whole bunch of stuff to loosen myself up when I’m around people. Mostly drinking, but it’s a fine line when alcohol is involved. One drink turns you from Mr. Life into that creepy…

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Image: nuttakit / FreeDigitalPhotos.netYou’ve seen it happen in movies and in televion. Those two characters you’ve spent hours getting to know and like somehow miss their chance at true happiness and love with one other. And yet you know, for the sake of the movie or the show, they’ll somehow be able to make it back into each other’s arms and live happily ever after. And low and behold it happens, to watery eyes, and…

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I want you to think back to a time when you went up to a beautiful woman, or a gorgeous man, and as you were flirting you caught the scent of that sweet perfume, or that inticing cologne and that initial trifecta was reached. Their voice made your heart skip a beat, their face and eyes made your groin…tingle(?), but their smell made you want to close your eyes and revel in it. See the…

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Image: photostock / FreeDigitalPhotos.netYou know what’s funny? When I find myself interested in a girl, I act like an idoit. I say things without thinking, I do things that are probably pretty silly, and I lack a whole lot of coordination. In other words, I am the epitomy of awkward when it comes to the ladies. Hell, I evemn have a hard time asking them out. And the thing is, all those reading can go…

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So, this part here I’m writing after I wrote this blog post, and I’m thinking, wow…I take this stuff really seriously. I mean, I’m trying so hard to teach a lesson or something to that effect. It almost seems like I’m so uptight when I try to even write about the lighter things in life. Like, well, yeah you could be funny and silly, but you got to take that seriously! Do you guys that…

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If you find yourself as one of those people who hasn’t been in a relationship in awhile, or maybe you are one of those people who likes to just jump into relationships at the drop of a hat, this is for you. As someone who hasn’t been in the game for awhile, and is just getting back into it, it becomes easy to find yourself getting caught up when someone gives you a little bit…

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A year ago, I was a gamer. And I mean I was an avid gamer, with all the systems, all the latest and greatest games, and I even played World of Warcraft on my PC. And then, things changed. My life changed and I had to sell and give up one of my beloved hobbies. It was probably for the better too because it became my escape from responsibility and from doing what needed to…

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Image: Tina Phillips / FreeDigitalPhotos.netI don’t know whether or not this article is old or not, but I’ve mentioned this time and again, and I actually am bringing up this article mostly because of the comments they produced. So if you’d like a good read, I definitely suggest reading what people say about this study. Now, I’m going to give my take on this article, one that states what women are really looking for in…

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Image: Kane Gledhill / FreeDigitalPhotos.netOkay, this idea came from a podcast I’m listening to right now, and they’re using it in a different context. So I’m stealing this idea!!! Mostly because, its odd that they’re bringing this subject up at around the time that I was mentioning it with friends the night before, and watched a movie about it a few weeks back. Anyway, that’s not the point, but the subject of fate and destiny…

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I was originally going to write about how I’m around a lot of people who are pessimistic and may be just an extention of their low self esteem, and how some of that can rub off on friends and loved one, and can actually push them away. But then I realized, why would I want to bum people out with that? Instead, I’m going to write about how pretty much anything you have in common…

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When you look at a relationship websites, and blogs, you’ll find that sex plays a huge part in the grand scheme of things. It makes a lot of sense too because its what I believe to be the most complicated part about relationships. There’s so much happening to you emotionally and physically that how sex goes in a relationship determines its future. Some women are very keen on sexuality. They are very comfortable with their…

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via: Nokia BlogSo I love technology, that’s why I brand myself a nerd or a geek. I don’t really know which one I am, but it doesn’t really matter. I just know I happen to find myself in the “culture”. Anyway, since I love tech, I try to follow the trends and the latest news news, and I’m finding a pretty scary trend. Technology, and everything that comes with it is just ruining us as…

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I started writing this blog post about how great relationships are, and how psychologically and physically we react positively to being in a relationship. I had all these things I wanted to talk about, and get deep into the different things we feel when we’re in someone’s arms, when we kiss, when people make love. There’s so many positive things that come with it, but…as life happens, so do I. Okay, that doesn’t make much…

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You can never be too careful when it comes to finding love online. I did that for awhile, dating people online, having long distance relationships. It was a lot of fun, it was easy, and this was before text messaging was popular. We would fly to one other, meet up with one another for weekend tristes, and send long e-mails of love and spend nights on instant messangers, confessing our heart’s desires. It was both…

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So my computer is creeping me out as its playing random music out of nowhere. I didn’t click play on anything, and…well, that’s neither here nor there. Well, okay it’s here, but it’s not there. So, I don’t know if everyone heard the news, but I guess there are people out there creating apps for Facebook to help you do something you probably were already doing. Now with the help of http://www.breakupnotifier.com/ you can now…

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If you looked at me, and you knew my situation, you’d label me easily as single. I don’t mind that because its true, but its amazing how we often label people in relationsihps pretty much in two different ways. They’re either single or with someone (which encompasses dating, marriage, sleeping around, whatever, you have someone in your life you’re being intimate in some way, shape or form). I on the other hand, am ready to…

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This past seven days I saw two different people get their heart broken, and I observed how they handled it after their significant others broke up with them. Now, when I was separated from my ex-wife and the inevitable divorce I reacted pretty drastically. I started off heart broken, depressed and ready to mope the rest of my days and later grew stronger, with the help of anti-depressants. A few months later I was able…

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Sugar Heart Candy by Petr KratochvilOn a day like today, those who are single are hating it and those who are in a relationship are hating it more. We are reminded of how we “need” to be in relationships and at the same time how expensive it is to maintain a relationship in general. But the negative aside, the day all boils down to a feeling, an emotion, a concept. Love. You don’t need a…

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I’m not going to lie and say I don’t view pornography. If that makes me less of a man, then ladies, you should look at your own men and realize, they like porn too. But when I was younger, porn was consumed mostly two different ways. Through magazines like Playboy, or through videos that you got through nefarious means. There was an industry, with some kind of production value, some kind of budget and there…

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Mother And Baby by Anna CervovaThe more women I talk to, the more I find that their idea of having children is becoming less of a dream come true and more of a nightmare. Now to get some perspective, I live in the suburbs of Southern California, and these women are busy in their career, making a living for themselves, and are either single, taking a break from dating or divorced. Even those who are…

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Young Woman Bored by Petr KratochvilIn our society its getting easier and easier to get bored. With so much inundating us all at one time, from the internet, to all the TV shows you “need” to watch to easy access to all sorts of news and information, its easy to get that stuff, absorb it and move on. We are so easily bored that we can’t just stick to one thing at a time, we…

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Are you the kind of person to break up and get back together again with your significant other? Maybe you’ve left someone and felt…remorse for it. I know that when an old friend of mine would break up and get back together again with their girlfriend, myself and other warned him that it wouldn’t end up well. We thought that if he was so miserable and got into fights so bad that they’d leave each…

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via Public Domain PicturesSo you found a girl or guy that you’re all into, and they’re dreamy, smart, and all that good stuff that makes you wish you can just smack lips with them right then and there. We’ve all met those people, but for some…there’s a catch. they have NO idea that you’re into them. This happens to people young and old, experienced and unexperienced. Its all because relationships are…is(?) like dancing, as it…

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I’ve always had someone in my life to keep me company. Whether its family, friends, a girlfriend, a wife, I’ve always had someone in life to keep me company in some way shape or form. I’ve never been “alone” for a long period of time. Even when I was living out of my car, I still had friends to see almost every day. So, circumstances have never really given me alone time. But maybe it’s…

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Here we were ready to record a brand new show full of fun filled, geeky relationship talk. But alas, the internet was not having it. So you must wait a week, and that will only come with Lisa and I as Dave will be out of the country. So no show this week, but next week will be a brand new episode, so stick around, we’ll have one coming your way soon. So write in…

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There’s a new movie out right now, with the beautiful Natalie Portman that tackles the idea of friends with benefits. Now, probably not like the movie, which is probably pretty predictable that the two main leads get together and become a couple, most friends with benefits stay friends. Now I’d be surprised if you didn’t know what this is, so I’m not going to take the time to explain what it is. Either way, I’m…

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I try to find stuff online that is interesting, funny,and informative. Okay, maybe they don’t always fall into those categories, but it deals with relationships and sex, and I want to be able to share that kind of stuff with you all. And as I continue to scour the internet for such things, I’m finding that more and more websites that used to provide this fun content are getting shut down. And they were really…

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credit: photo8.comAll this time I’ve been telling men and women that when it comes to sex, women have the advantage, because they have the power. But apparently, that’s not the case, and I don’t know how I didn’t know this. I may have to change my ideas, and my advice, and probably flex this muscle. But anyway, let me explain briefly why I thought otherwise, and that women are the ones with the sexual advantage.…

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img from Public Domain PicturesI totally get this. We talked about it on GLR. People really don’t know if they’re a couple or not. I thought it was easy, I thought it was obvious, but apparently its not. Younger couples don’t easily know when they’re sexually exclusive. It seems more and more research is on whether or not people understand monogamy, and keeps emphasizing how important sex is. Yes, there’s a romantic, intimacy involved in…

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In the last few days I’ve been catching up to the BBC series, Doctor Who. Now I know not everyone knows who that is, but I’m assuming you will if you’re on this site. I mean, its kind of geared towards everyone, but I am geek-centric. Anyway, I won’t go into the premise of the show, but the reason why I wanted to talk about it is just kind of a look at how I…

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I’ve always thought that your own self image, and self esteem were important to finding a successful relationship. You need to be able to handle life solo and be happy being alone before you can successfully handle the life of being a couple. Why is that? Because you can then handle it if there is a breakup, and you don’t become obsessive over your mate, or smother them, or do things that can harm a…

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My only “experience” with the concept of the chastity belt was watching Robin Hood: Men in Tights. It was in the form of reinforced, steel panties, and it was an okay joke, and it made sense in the end. I never thought about it since, thinking that it was more of a medieval thing. Now, low and behold, jealousy is so rampant among women and the desire for men to cheat so big, that…they created…

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Via: STORNO 8BIT SESSION!Usually I like to write about something out there on the internet that deals with relationships. A new study, research, or maybe even discuss a person’s opinion on one thing or another. I realize this blog is really just a blog, and was originally meant to be about my own struggles and evolved into me wanting to bring to light things that might interest others and help people in some way. I’ve…

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For the longest time, I was under the impression that the most effective pick up line, was, “Hi, how are you doing?” Apparently, I was wrong. Its a great way to start a conversation, but its not necessarily the best way to flirt. So, someone else did the job for us trying to find out what it is that gets your foot in the door to a woman’s heart. Well at least online, and take…

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So, after spending hours working on the audio, and spending a few hours at Disneyland, with little to no sleep and ever growing anxiety and frustration, I have come to the conclusion, that recording on Skype is hard and the software I’m using sucks. With that in mind, the show that I was going to post yesterday, will not longer be…available, but will be done fresh and new later on, which leads me to rants,…

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Well, you all survived another year. Its a time of resolutions, a time of doing things differently, its like the new year offers a clean slate. Almost. This year, we have a brand new Geek Love Radio coming to you, with the return of Dave the Drummer. He, Lisa, and I will be doing the show on a regular basis and it will be coming to you every Monday. Of course, like every new thing,…

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You don’t have to be Christian to appreciate that song, but honestly, it makes a lot of sense. As I continue to try figure myself out, which I think we should all be doing on a continuous basis, this song comes too mind. A song used in my wedding, it was a representation of how the relationships I’ve been in were all part of this path that led to my now, ex-wife. Obviously, things aren’t…

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Hello everyone. I hope that you all had a great Christmas weekend. I hope you all got what you wanted and you all had a great time with the family and the friends. No holidays would be complete without some drama, a lot of love, and overeating, and I hope everyone had a little bit of everything. Well, less drama maybe. I on the other hand, if you guys cared, am experience my own drama,…

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We at Geek Love Radio and Sincere Sarcasm (Pretty much Lisa and I), just wanted to wish those who are celebrating the next couple of days, a Merry Christmas. We hope everyone gets what they want this year. Naughty or Nice you all deserve awesome things. Especially if you were naughty. Haha.

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Okay, so…I’m not used to writing in this format, in this genre. I normally write sci-fi fantasy. Let me know what you think of this. Its just an attempt to see how I feel about writing in this genre of writing. I want to do a series of stories based on relationships because I enjoy writing. Its all fiction, for the most part, taken from the lives of possibly myself or others. Busting out a…

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Its only a few days from Christmas, and you’d think that something more upbeat, and more positive would make its way into the hearts of Sincere Sarcasm. Its a season of love, and caring, and miracles. Families get together endure each other’s company for a day. Friends and loved ones gather around sharing stories, sharing joy, and sharing gifts. There’s a spirit of the season that falls over us, that even when the worst happens,…

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*sigh* Okay, again…I had a thought out, beautiful post, taking me half an hour to do, and what does Windows do? Refreshes my screen and deletes all that I’ve written. I hate you…Windows and your stupid updates. If you told me it was going to do that, I wouldn’t have done it in the first place!!!! Fine, here I go again. I’m writing this post because of two reasons. One, I feel like I’m going…

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Via: Video Games BloggerOkay, I had this great entry…okay, great to me, entry that was just about a whole crap load of stuff and now…its gone. I can’t believe its gone. *kicks things* I’m frustrated, mad, and well…now this post is going to be crappy because its going to be shorter, and just cut straight to the point. Not fluff, not thoughtful insight, just wham, bam, thank you blog post! Okay, maybe that’s better than…

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Punch: I understand that its upsetting when your significant other tells you they don’t want to marry you after all. Its even worse when its only a few days before the wedding. According to the article from NBC Chicago, the bride to be was so upset that her fianc eacute;e called off the wedding, that she wants to sue him for $100,000 for emotional distress. Okay, again, I get that a person would be angry…

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I’m going to tell you a story of what’s been happening to me lately. Why? Because I would like your opinion on something. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I had gone off the medication I was taking for Depression. I guess its not that surprising I was on it, for people who are reading the blog for the first time, but it was to help me get over my divorce. I’m fairly open when…

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By: Lisa Small talk is a social skill I know I haven rsquo;t mastered yet (there rsquo;s a lot I haven rsquo;t mastered). Small talk usually occurs when I rsquo;m caught off guard. I don rsquo;t perform well when I rsquo;m caught off guard. I rsquo;m usually deep in thought about something and then I rsquo;ll hear my name come from behind me and I become startled. I go into ldquo;run away rdquo; mode and…

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I often look at this blog and wonder, why do people come on here and read what I have to write? What about my perspective or the things I bring up on this blog, makes me different from anyone else? Because honestly, there are a million blogs out there, hundreds on relationships, from news websites to personal websites, to forums. What do I do that makes me stand out? Part of me hopes its the…

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Heh, busy day today, no time to write a post. So I thought I’d just write a line or two just to say hi. Hello everyone. How are you all doing readers, listeners, and visitors? Anything new?

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I don’t know why I have to write every post with a question mark, well not every post, but a lot of them are questions for some reason. Anyway, that’s not the point now is it? As days pass, and the cold settles in for the winter, I am learning more and more everyday. I don’t know how much of that I’ll actually retain, but hey, I’m learning something, so that’s always good. First off,…

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No post today, doing this from my phone. Computer problems are causing me to resort to this. I hope that I can get it working again soon. If you want some fun blog reading, please visit http://potentdisarray.tumblr.com/ Also, don’t forget to visit my VYou account: http://vyou.com/wizard and ask me questions. Thanks everyone. Hopefully the problem will be resolved soon.

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This is probably the first time I have nothing really to say about something, mostly because I’ve never done it before. I know of it, I’ve heard people talk about it, but I guess I’m just not suave enough to have experienced the one night stand. Now, I can’t imagine people aren’t aware of what this is, so I won’t bother explaining it, but this is where I pose the question to you folks out…

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First off, I am once again left to reassess what this blog is all about. Simply because I’ve read so many other people’s blogs, which are much more personal, filled with ideas not just about relationships but about humor and movies, and tv and all that good stuff. So, I may or may not change the way this blog works. Now, onto what I wanted to write about. Lately I’ve been making a lot of…

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We hope everyone is having a great holiday, and expect blog and podcast silence until Monday, when we are all recovering from the gigantic meals. We are thankful for you the reader and the listener for being supportive and for giving us a reason to keep doing this week in and week out. Be well, be safe, and thank you.

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I remember when I used to tell my girlfriend, it would be so hot if you were making out with another girl, or getting it on with them. I encouraged it, and egged it on, and asked if that woman over there would be someone she’d go snogging with. Yep, I used the word snogging. And we’d have sexy time talk about it, and we’d flirt with the idea, but it never happened. Has my…

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I guess the older you get, doesn’t necessarily mean the wiser you get. I guess as we get older we get more desperate or more hungry for sex? That’s speculation, because as far as I know, people are horny all their lives, for the most part. I understand biology screws with that as you get older, but old people still get it on. I know, I painted a horrible picture in your mind of an…

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Okay, went to see the Midnight Screening of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 1. Before I review the movie, which will be pretty lame, because I normally don’t review things very well, I have to say that Harry Potter has become a stoner movie. I mean, more power to the people who do it, I’d rather not and have no interest, but wow…I was just so surprised by how many teens, and I…

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Well, the last few months have been very…enlightening as I have made and more and more female friends. And it is because of these women I’ve been able, to at least touch the surface, of how complex the female mind works. And if you’ve read the ladder theory, you’re probably thinking I’m already putting them on this ladder. Well, no comment on this one. But that’s not the point, the point is, that the men…

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Okay, nothing too thought out too today, but I was re-introduced to the Ladder Theory yesterday, sorry Christy, I forgot, then remembered your talking about the Ladder Theory. I’ll leave a link after this brief post so you can read it. But in a nutshell, its how men and women place people they’re interested in on a ladder. For men, its a single ladder where women are ranked by how much they want to sleep…

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Okay, that may all seem rather random, but it all is interconnected and related in some way shape or form. Because we all know that the internet is now really integrated into our lives one way or another. There’s Facebook for stalking and whatnot and befriending, and there’s Flickr for trolling through pictures, and so much more. But now the internet is making it easier and easier for people to get to know each other,…

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Its been a pretty hectic several of days for me personally with things going all around me, keeping me from having time to actually be online and do the things I want to do, like share articles, write up ideas, and the like. I know a blog is only as good as its content, and unfortunately, the content I provide doesn’t seem to have too many eyes and ears. But I guess its not for…

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Well, I’m not feeling up to writing anything profound, or any articles I read. Aren’t we all allowed to be lazy? I think so, therefore, today, I will be lazy. Though I guess what I write on here doesn’t take a bunch of science or anything, its just research and opinion. Besides, today is a good day to go out, have fun, and not think about crap. We all deserve a day like that. Weekends…

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I know I’m a little late to the game, as this article is over a week old, but I keep forgetting it existed, ironically enough. But unless you didn’t know, scientists have found a way to take away traumatic memories from lab animals. In other words, we’re getting closer to blissful ignorance, as this may lead to the removal of all the painful memories that lead to heartache, sadness, hurt, and trauma. That breakup would…

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Okay, nothing geeky, relationshippy or anything, just a quick rant. Yesterday my phone broke, again. I don’t know how many people out there have had this kind of problem, but its getting really annoying in my book. This time, my phone’s bootloader isn’t working, so it stays on this screen, and…well, its just bad. The funny thing, I’m complaining, only because I feel like that’s the thing I should be doing. When it happened, I…

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